Preparing for a Reading
How To Prepare For Your Reading
Whether you’re new to Tarot, Oracle, witchcraft, or spirituality—or a seasoned pro—all are welcome! If you’re new here, here are some tips to make your experience amazing:
Find a quiet, distraction-free spot for your appointment. This helps both you and me stay focused and get the most from your session.
Have water nearby. Hydration is important, especially when working with Spirit.
Keep paper and a pen handy. Taking notes during your reading is encouraged! You might want to write down questions that pop up or thoughts sparked by what I say.
Want to record your reading? Please ask ahead of time so I can accommodate you.
Bring anything that makes you comfortable! Your favorite blanket, fidget toys, tissues—sometimes readings bring up a lot of energy, and it’s okay to have what you need close. All feelings are valid!
Invite Spirit into your space. Feel free to set out a glass of water or light a white candle during your reading to welcome your Spirit Guides or Ancestors and deepen the connection.
Messages might not make immediate sense. Especially if you’re asking for general guidance without a specific question, Spirit might speak to future moments or offer insights you’ll understand later.
Review our Ethics & Policies page and FAQ to know what questions/topics are allowed and other important info.
Have fun! Ask questions, enjoy the moment, and embrace the conversation!
"Good" Questions to Ask
You don’t need to know exactly what to ask. Trust that what needs to come through, will. But here are some great starting points to inspire your reading:
General Guidance
- What guidance do my Spirit Guides or Ancestors have for me?
- Am I on the right career path?
- Does this person have good intentions toward me?
- Should I change career paths, majors, jobs, or relocate?
- What is the current energy of my relationship?
- What obstacle do I need to overcome?
- What is my career calling? How do I move closer to it?
- What’s my role in this specific situation?
- What general advice do Spirit(s) have for me?
Making a Decision?
- What’s the root cause of this crossroads?
- What outcome is most likely with option A?
- What outcome is most likely with option B?
- What else should I consider that’s been missed?
- What’s my next best step today?
- What’s troubling me right now? What is putting me “in my feels” or blocking me?
Relationships
- What is my relationship’s current energy?
- What’s the root cause of the split/ending/etc?
- What are their intentions toward me now?
- What is the future nature of this relationship?